I wouldn't pin the blame on social media for making people like that. Plenty of people were already pretty unsavoury and/or self-appointed experts, and social media gave them a much broader publicly accessible platform on which to flaunt their ghastliness.
Thanks for the advice and sharing your own experience. It's definitely something I'm working on although the hurdles are insane. I need something called a Conrad waiver, of which there are 30 per year for my state. Of those, 20 are for workers in underserved areas, for which I don't qualify. So I need to get one of these ten waivers, after which I can switch to a different visa for three years, after which I can apply for a green card and then work on citizenship.
Or I could just go home!I
I feel your pain watcher.... I was lucky to do all of this pre-9/11. I know that it's a lot harder now.. Hang in there and just take one small step at a time wherever you can. I know immigration is a pain in the butt. I wish the US had a points based system like the country I came from (Canada). Take care.