I disagree. Well, I think I do, as you seem to be saying that misogynistic views are fuelled by "progressives" calling out misogyny, causing the people holding those views to feel alienated. Please correct me if I've misunderstood you.
For progressives I would say people with decent reasonable views rightly calling out vile attitudes. There might possibly be a small number of men who attain those attitudes because of what those people say, but you then have to ask why they take that course rather than considering that they - oh I don't know - shouldn't be misogynists.
As part of trump's campaign he said Harris progressed in her career by granting sexual favours and if elected would be a "playtoy" for male world leaders. This slur immediately became a repeated fact by his supporters, including his campaign team. He called Nancy Pelosi a bitch, and laughingly encouraged attendees at a rally to repeat it. He joked how interesting it would be to throw Harris into a boxing ring with Mike Tyson. At his MSG rally he laughed as a speaker said Harris was "a prostitute controlled by pimps". Vance said liberal female leaders were "miserable childless cat ladies." Tucker Carlson said all this sort of stuff was simply trump being like "an angry father showing tough love to a bad little girl." Conservative youth organisation Turning Point said wives who vote for Harris "undermine their husbands."
Following trump's victory white nationalist & outspoken misogynist podcaster Nick Fuentes tweeted "Your body, MY choice, forever" in a distortion of the "MY body, MY choice" female reproductive rights slogan. (EDIT 1: since the election there's been a surge of reports by women on social media that they're having Fuentes's twisted version posted at them).
There's way more of this stuff just from the election campaign alone. I don't believe any of the above comes from alienation, but rather from enabling of already entrenched views, causing those who hold them to feel they now have a green light to freely express them. Imagine young boys absorbing all this, by osmosis given it's in the air and directly from fathers, older brothers, other male elders with these views. In the UK alone, schoolgirls increasingly cite overt sexism towards them from boys enabled by easy access to porn and the toxic views of scumbags like Fuentes and Andrew Tate with huge followings. What hope is there?
EDIT 2: I focused on the misogyny issue but I agree there is a broad set of reasons why trump won so comfortably.